Anatomy of a Ceremony
Despite how elaborate some may be, there are only two legally-required elements to any wedding ceremony. They are 1) your declarations of intent (your I-do's) and 2) the pronouncement (you are pronounced married!). Additional sections are supplementary and all (including the two legal elements, within reason) can be fully personalized!
Below, you will find an example of common ceremony elements, all of which I can work with you to personalize and/or add to...
Opening Remarks
As your officiant, I would welcome your guests and relay any wishes you have for the ceremony, such as if photographs can be taken.
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Processional
Often, the second partner's wedding party enters the ceremony to whatever music they have chosen beforehand. Some couples may choose to have both parties enter during the processional. It is up to each couple how they wish to organize this and who they want included.
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Officiant's Speech
This is your officiant's wedding talk (often referred to as a 'sermon'), shared either from a simple script or a customized talk highlighting your unique relationship story. In either case, the importance of the event will be discussed, often with some practical advice for marriage and potentially laced with some humor!
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Declarations of Intent
Your I-do's, which will be read out to each of you in turn (personalized if desired). This is a legally required wedding element which involves you making known your desire to marry.
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Exchange of Vows / Rings
These are your vows to each other, which can be personalized and read out for you to repeat to your partner, or can be written by yourselves and read to each other. This often includes an exchange of rings.
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Additional Elements
This is where some couples may include additional elements (if desired). This could be a reading or blessing given by a friend or family member, a unique wedding custom, or vows read to children that are included in your new family unit. It is also possible to add your marriage license signing as part of the ceremony here (something which is popular in Commonwealth countries).
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Pronouncement
I am delighted to pronounce you married, and you can share your first married kiss if you wish! This element is legally required, so that your officiant can confirm to all present that you are now a married couple.
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Closing Remarks
Your guests are thanked for attending. Brief announcements can be made as to what plans are following the ceremony. After announcements, you'll be formally introduced as newlyweds prior to your recessional, when the celebrations can begin!
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Recessional
Guests celebrate for your walk back down the aisle, likely with your wedding party following, to music you have chosen for the occasion.